While men find younger women to be more desirable for natural reasons, related to physical appearance, there are several reasons why you might enjoy dating an older woman, and why that experience might be in at least some ways more gratifying than dating a younger woman:

1. More Mature Women Tend to Be More Interesting.

The more mature woman is likely to have had more interesting life experiences, which in turn made her a more interesting person – a more stimulating company with interesting views and opinions. Her personality is likely to be more developed and more stable, which might make any interaction with her easier and more fun than with a younger woman who is shy and who has a number of other hang-ups about men.

2. An Older Woman Is Probably More Open Minded.

As a general rule, older women are more open minded. They can take a dirty joke, or criticism and dish their own. They don’t get offended as easily as the younger do. The more mature women are entertained by sarcasm rather than being intimidated by it, which makes talking to them all the more enjoyable. You will not have to walk on eggshells when talking to an older woman as it takes much more to offend her than a girl who is in her late teens or early twenties.

3. A More Mature Woman Will Not Apply Pressure On You to Enter Into a Relationship.

An older woman, especially the one who has been married before and/or who has children, has already had everything a younger woman dreams about having. She realizes how many misconceptions younger women have about meeting Mr. Right and what that perfect guy should be. The older woman is much less likely to pressure you to settle down with her and have a long term relationship, in part because she wants to take things slowly and not be rushed into anything after being married and living with a guy for a long time. She might just be enjoying her newly discovered single life. If you are not ready to settle down, and you are put off by women’s pressure to determine exactly where you stand with them shortly after you start seeing them, you might find dating an older woman to be easier and more fun because you are unlikely to experience that pressure.

4. An Older Woman Might Be a Better Sex Partner.

It’s not a secret that women’s sex drives significantly increases in their thirties. That, coupled with confidence and comfort with oneself which comes to us with age is likely to make a more mature women a more passionate sex partner – someone who is proud of her desires rather than ashamed of them, like some of the younger and the less experienced women are.

5. She’s Got Some Money

She likely has achieved some level of success in her career, so she won’t be leaning on you to pick up the tab every time you do anything. She might treat you to a nice weekend away or a big night out simply because she enjoys your company. Younger girls don’t tend to do that as much.

You’re less likely to be dealing with the recently graduated student with no plan for working down her massive debt here. You’ll be dating some one that has the means and you won’t have to worry about drowning in her financial wake should you stay together.

6. She’s Less Needy

Older women tend to be more independent and don’t need you to perfect. She is more likely to enjoy you for you and less likely to expect you to be SuperMan all the time. This comes back to experience in that she’s lived a bit more and is more likely to understand that men are a package of good and bad qualities.

She will be less likely to run if things get shaky and more apt to be consistent in her interaction. Just like men, women come into their own as they get older and experience only comes through living.

Come on, it’s me here you’re talking to.  It’s ok to admit that from the first time you saw that hot teacher, your older sister’s sexy friend or your friend’s Mom that was always the talk of the teenage boys that you dreamed of one day fulfilling this fantasy.

You can revel in the age inappropriateness of your relationship and use it as a source of fun chiding and bubbling sexual energy.

If you can think of any other advantages to dating an older woman, please comment below, and I will consider adding your thoughts to this article to make it more useful and comprehensive.

It takes time and efforts to maintain and grow a marital relationship. Keeping the Spark in Your Marriage alive throughout is not a very easy task. Things many people consider insignificant and tend to ignore can result in marital boredom and ruin the relationship. Given below is a Guest Post by Blogger Mary Edwards on the different ways to keep the married life fresh and strong.

At some point in time, everyone sees those married couples that still seem so blissfully in love after years of marriage and you stop to wonder what it is that they’re doing that’s so right. Let’s be honest, marriage is not an easy task to undertake. Living with the same person day in and day out can be a trying experience, even in the most solid of relationships. Little things can start to add up into things that are driving you crazy. Add in work, pets, and kids to the mix and sometimes it can seem overwhelming. However despite all the challenges that accompany marriage, there are ways to keep that fire ignited.

1. Never stop dating: When you first got together with your spouse you probably went out on dates regularly. Now that you’re married you still need to go on dates without the kids and without any technology. Dates are a time that you focus on one another with no distractions. That means no phone calls, texts or emails. This is a time to focus on and celebrate one another.
2. Don’t stop trying to impress your partner: Remember how you used to get dressed up just to see your partner, or how you planned little surprises for them for no other reason than just to see them smile? You still need to do little things every now and then to impress your significant other. Maybe it’s buying them flowers randomly, or leaving a note telling them you love them in their lunch. These little gestures can go a long way in showing that you still are completely enamored with them.
3. Make time to talk: Whether it’s carving out time for a cup of coffee together in the morning or relishing a glass of wine together at night, set aside time every day to talk to one another. Far too often people rush around every day and never say more than a few words to their spouse. Be sure to ask them how their day was and really listen to what they have to say. Show them that their day is important to you.
4. Find something to do together: Take up a hobby that you both enjoy. Maybe it’s going on a weekly hike or taking a photography class or just buying different Group ons to try out new activities. One of the key elements to keeping your marriage fresh is branching out and trying new things – if all else fails you’ll at least get a good laugh and a story out of the experience!
5. Embrace Time to Yourself: One of the most important parts of having a successful marriage is making the time to do things by yourself that you enjoy. Too often we lose sight of who we are as an individual which inevitably results in the infamous mid-life crisis. Make time to do the things you love to do by yourself, even if it’s just reading a book for a few hours or going golfing a few times a month. With the divorce rate steadily climbing, marriage can seem like an insurmountable task sometimes. However it’s a journey that is continually evolving and one that should be openly embraced. It won’t always be perfect, but who wants perfect anyway?

It feels good to be the go-to guy or girl: the one that everyone comes to for solutions to their problems. When people smile at you and tell you, “Thank you so much. I just don’t know what I would do without you,” feelings of importance, value, and worth well up inside of you. The immediate verbal affirmation you receive from saying, “Yes,” to every request can even fulfill subconscious aspirations of being popular: I could never be class president, but I can fix every technical challenge people bring to me. At last, I’m a VIP!

But the problem I frequently see with my time coaching clients is that their default response of, “Sure, I’ll get that to you by tomorrow,” leads to long-term negative consequences for themselves and others, such as:

• Handling small requests but putting off important projects
• Turning in late or low-quality work
• Doing other people’s work for them instead of properly delegating
• Working extra hours so they can’t move forward on personal goals
• Sacrificing sleep, exercise, and time with people they enjoy
• Developing a reputation for being approachable but not reliable
• Having people nag them about when they will get things done

Feeling overwhelmed, inadequate, guilty, frustrated, and resentful

Don’t misunderstand me: Doing your job well, having a willingness to serve, and acting like a team player are all awesome qualities. I’m not advocating slacking or never taking on extra assignments. But when you allow every request to divert your attention from your most important activities of the day, everyone ends up frustrated.

Fortunately, the solution to this huge challenge often involves a relatively small change in behavior: Thinking through and practicing how to say, “No,” or, “Not now,” nicely.

“When you allow every request to divert your attention from your most important activities of the day, everyone ends up frustrated.”

As a starting point, I’ve listed out some examples of quick, respectful responses you can use in situations where it’s common to overcommit. Try saying a few of these out loud (preferably by yourself) and tweak them until the phrasing suits your personality and work culture. It may seem a bit strange or “fake” at first to rehearse. But if you’ve developed a life-long habit of always answering affirmatively, it’s necessary to retrain yourself so that you don’t default to your typical pattern.

Here you go:

When you receive perpetual last-minute requests:

I would love to help you out, but I already made commitments to other _________ (coworkers, clients, etc.) to complete their projects today. It wouldn’t be fair to them to not follow through on what I said I would do. I will be sure to fit this in as soon as possible. Thanks for your understanding.

When people ask you about everything instead of directly contacting the appropriate person:

That’s not my area of expertise, but I would be happy to connect you with someone who could best help you solve this problem.

When you’re asked in the hallway or at a meeting for an estimated timeframe for a complex project:

Could you email me the details of that request? Once I receive them, I’ll be able to give you a more definite response on when I can get that done for you.

When you’re given an exceptionally short deadline:

I know this project is a high priority for you, and if it’s absolutely necessary for me to turn something in by that date, I can make it happen. But if I could have a few more _________ (days, weeks, etc.), I could really deliver something of higher quality. Would it be possible for me to have a bit more time?

When someone starts talking about a problem that you could potentially help them with but you don’t have time to handle and is not your responsibility:

Wow. I can really understand how that would be hard. (Then say nothing more—just nod, smile, and release the problem when you walk away.)

When asked to do something optional that you can’t commit to right now:

I appreciate you thinking of me, and I’m honored by the request. But unfortunately, I don’t have the time to give this my best right now. I think you would benefit from finding someone who can devote more time and energy to this project.

When someone asks you to do something that your much-less-busy coworker could do:

I would love to help you out, but given my schedule, I wouldn’t be able to get this back to you for a couple of weeks. If you would like to have this turned around sooner, I recommend that you reach out to __________. Does that sound good?

At first, you’ll need to consciously think about using these new phrases. But in time, these type of responses will quite naturally flow out of your mouth in conversation or through your fingers in an email response.

Also, if you’ve developed a reputation for always jumping to meet everyone’s requests, you may have a few people who don’t like your new approach. But by consistently practicing better responses, you’ll end up making more people happy – including yourself.

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Over to You…

Do you struggle with taking on more than you can handle?

How have you learned to avoid over-commitment?

Women often look for an attractive male for a date. However, just because he is stunning does not mean he would be able to please you behind closed doors. Not only does a man with higher libido can satisfy your sexual needs, but also has a higher sperm count. If you want a man who could to keep up with you, there are several physical signs to look for.

He has a trim waistline

Testosterone breaks down more quickly in belly fat. Once a guy hits the age of 30, his metabolism slows down and brings his testosterone level down by 1 percent every year. If he has a bigger tummy, he loses libido at a faster rate. Now you have more reasons why you should salivate over a man’s hot abs. However, a skinny guy does not have lots of testosterone either. Check the next tell-tale sign to find out why.

He is cut and ripped

A male who regularly does strength training is likely to have higher libido because the body needs testosterone to build muscle mass. It also boosts the guy’s testosterone levels, but only up to a point. However, guys with low amounts of testosterone can never build big guns no matter how they try.

He smokes and drinks less

Some guys think smoking makes them look sexy, but in reality smoking-along with heavy drinking-lowers their sex drive. Smoking constricts the blood vessels, which may cause a man to have problems with erecting his penis. Meanwhile, drinking more than three servings of alcoholic drinks can also make a guy’s penis go limp because alcohol depresses the central nervous system, which also limits blood flow.

His testicle size is good

Women can even gauge a man’s sexual prowess once he takes off his boxers. Take a hold of his testicles and check for its size. Normal testicles should be about the size of a walnut and should be nearly equal. If one of them is really smaller than the other, consider it a red flag. Good testicles should also be a little warm, as any extra heat could reduce sperm count.

Check the quality of the semen

A normal ejaculation should measure about half a teaspoon. If he produces less, it could either mean he has been ejaculating a lot, has an infection, or has a blockage of the ejaculatory ducts. The appearance should be a bit fluid and creamy, with the sperm giving the semen a cloudy look. Watery semen means the guy has a low sperm count.

Meanwhile, if you are a bit more curious, good semen should taste sweet. It implies that he has not been ejaculating in a while. Guys who frequently masturbate or have sex would have salty-tasting semen because of low sperm count.

It takes enough time to come

Anything less than two minutes of sex before coming to an orgasm is considered premature ejaculation, but if a man who takes forever to ejaculate should also be a concern.

Coming up with the perfect Christmas present for your significant other can be daunting, especially when you’ve been dating such a short time that you’re not quite familiar with the eccentricities of his or her music taste but you still want to impress with an unexpectedly thoughtful and insightful gift that will buy you a few more weeks, at least.

Flowers and chocolates, a la Valentine’s Day, are very sweet, but they pretty much prove you don’t know your honey at all, unless she’s super into exotic buds or something. If you don’t happen to be dating a horticulturist, don’t go this route. Here’s a quick-and-dirty list of our top picks for new couples:

A book – Unless your lover is an English major, you probably can’t go wrong with a classic that has something to do with romance. Go with “The Unbearable Lightness of Being” or “Love in Time of Cholera.” It gives you the perfect chance to hint at your deeper, tortured, artistic side, and you get to write a sappy inscription. (Hint: If you haven’t read the book, stay away from comparing you and your sweetie to the characters. Fiction authors are not to be trusted with your relationship.)

A soulful hits compilation – Even if it’s not his style, no one is going to balk at a sexy collection of slow-danceable love songs (at least not to your face). It gives the two of you a chance to get close, and if the cheese factor is over the top, y’all can laugh about it together and then put on something good.

Massage oil – Ok, you might want to be careful with this one, but if you play your cards right, it’s a great gift. If you’re ready to take things to the next level, it implies that it’s time to get physical. If you’re not, this present can come off as a little presumptuous, but you can always backtrack and offer up a neck-and-shoulder massage to smooth things over.

No matter what gift you go with, the fact that you’re putting some effort into it bodes well for the future of your union. Don’t be afraid to dive in and find something your new love will really like — just take our advice and stay away from gift cards!

If you’re looking for something a bit more original than the typical “dinner and a movie,” more power to you. As a female, I can tell you that guys get major brownie points for coming up with and planning creative dates that prove they did more than open a newspaper. If your lady loves communing with nature, here are a few ideas for your initial rendezvous that will appeal to her outdoorsy side and make sure you get a second date.

Hiking the trails – The big secret about hiking that no one tells you is that it’s really just walking by another name. Find a shaded trail in your neck of the woods and invite her along for the ride. The scenery will provide a welcome distraction while you two get to know each other.

Rock climbing – One of my all-time favorite dates, this one requires some planning, as the two of you will need to take an intro class if you’re not skilled climbers. Still, there are plenty of gyms that offer affordable introductions, and you usually get your own instructor. Develop trust by belaying each other, then satisfy your post-climbing appetites by grabbing some food.

A picnic in the park – A classic first-date outing, it’s hard to go wrong with a blanket, a picnic basket, and some home-made treats. Let your thoughtfulness shine through, then seal the deal with a PB&J.

Horseback riding – At the risk of generalizing, women love horses. Whether it’s the “white knight” angle or just the excitement of sitting atop an animal several times your size, horseback riding lessons, or even a tour à la cheval, will up the romance factor of any outing.

Kayaking – For those lucky enough to live near a body of water, why not rent a kayak (yes, just one, gentlemen … you do the paddling) and float around? While swimming is probably a little much (she’d likely prefer not to be nearly-naked the first time the two of you hang out), the water is the perfect place to see sparks.

Skydiving – If you’ve got a daredevil on your hands, you’ll create a lifelong bond by leaping out of a plane, hand in hand. Not for the faint of heart, it’s an unbelievable rush – and the thrill of touching back down on the sweet, solid earth is sure to bring you two closer together.

Riding bikes – Looking for something a bit tamer? Scope out the city on two wheels. If you’re serious about wooing this one, you might even consider renting a tandem bike. It’s a risk, and possibly a bit on the cheesy side, but it’s hard to deny the appeal of “a bicycle built for two.”

Camping – It might be a stretch for a first date, but if you’re really jonesing for an outdoor adventure, throw a tent in the truck and whisk her away to a secluded spot. Pros: No TV, menu-perusing, or snotty waiters to distract you. Cons: bears!

There is a secret to attracting women! If you’re like me, then you’ve probably heard a lot about the different techniques for attracting women. The most famous of them is called ‘cocky/funny’. Now I personally think cocky/funny is an incredible to build attraction when you initially meet a woman, but relying just on this technique can get you in a lot of trouble. Let me explain… The idea behind cocky-funny is to tease a woman while talking to her and act in a slightly arrogant manner.

The problem is many guys read about cocky/funny and think all they have to do is act like a jerk then women will instantly fall in love with them. Unfortunately this technique rarely works! While cocky/funny is a great way to add spice to a conversation, it shouldn’t be your only tool to attracting a woman. .

In fact, many women are turned off by guys who only use cocky/funny techniques. So how can you attract women without relying solely on cocky/funny? Well it’s simple! All you to do is to learn how to be charming. If you’ve watched the men who are successful with women, you’ve probably noticed that they all have one thing in common. They all know how to be charming. While it’s always important to be confident, you have to learn how to speak to a woman and make her attracted to you.

Here are a few ways you can become charming to a woman during a conversation:

1) Be pleasant company- One of the best ways to be charming is to be a fun person around women. If you’re a source of fun and excitement to a woman, then you’re on your way to being charming. In essence you have to tell interesting stories, bring her on exciting adventures and be a funny person to her. So even if you’re teasing her or being cocky/funny, you’re still a source of excitement in her life.

2) You smile and have body language- A charming guy always has a warm and inviting personality. In order to be like this, you have to know how to become the suave guy who attracts women. While I don’t have enough space to list all the ways to become charming, let me give a quick rule for behaving in a charming manner: All you have to do is remember to smile during your conversation and be ‘open’ with your body language.

3) Have interesting conversations instead of routines- One huge mistake guys make is to use memorized routines on women. While it’s important to use stories and other attraction building techniques, you should never use the same routine with every woman you meet. Instead of reenacting a boring routine, you should ask her questions which spark curiosity and make you unique. The charming guys are the ones can make instant connections to women and make them enjoy themselves during the conversation.

4) You treat her well- While I love using the cocky/funny technique I know it’s useful up to a point. If she’s having fun and you’re enjoying the playful interaction, then you know it’s working. But even if you’re having success, you should remember a charming man knows the importance of always treating a woman well. In other words, you should always treat women with respect. This means you act in an honest manner and don’t deal in lies. While you might want to have sex and play around with women, you have to remember to behave in a manner where you’re not using and taking advantage of them. Only guys with low self-esteem enjoy hurting women. If you want to succeed with women and move beyond cocky/funny, you have to learn how to be charming. By following the previous four tips, you’ll be on your way to becoming the charming man all women love!

We all like to pride ourselves on having an honest and truthful relationship with no secrets or lies.

But some things really are just best left in the closet. It’s not lying. It’s not even twisting the truth, technically. It’s just being careful.

Below is a list of ten vital things that you should NEVER say to your boyfriend…. (If you want your relationship to work that is!)

1. “No, you were good. It’s just that….”

Men love believing that no other man can compare to them in the bedroom. If your man does need a bit of guidance in the right direction (possibly quite literally), find a less heart-breaking way of phrasing this. Something along the lines of “You know what’s nice?…” or “You know what might be an idea?….” may be a better way of getting exactly what you want from your man in the bedroom and yet not destroying his ego completely!

2. “I like your mum. But…”

Even if your boyfriend moans about his mum non-stop, don’t. He can. You can’t. Try to work on your relationship with her if possible, but if that’s not an option, just grin and bear it. It may be hard, but at the end of the day, you’re going out with her son, not her, so who really cares? Slagging her off to your man will only ruin your relationship, meaning (obviously) no boyfriend and that she wins, and we don’t want that now do we? Talk to your friends in confidence instead. It’s a high possibility that they know exactly what you mean too!

3. “When we’re married/old/have kids….”

Until you’re both seriously thinking about these things, don’t bring them up, ever. We all dream of being happily married with two kids, a big house and a dog, but bringing these things up too early on in the relationship will only scare your man away, meaning none of the above, anytime soon. Enjoy the relationship for what it is then eventually these subjects will come up naturally, when the time is right.

4. “There’s this great guy at work…..”

There may well be a great guy at work. Or at university, or at your fitness class or that you met at a party on Saturday night. However, in most cases your boyfriend doesn’t need to know this. Don’t not talk about other people and so on, but if you’re going to phrase it in a way that makes your man feel inadequate, refrain. If this guy is that fantastic, surely you want to be with him, not your boyfriend, anyway?

5. “Do you think she’s hot?”

This is always a lose-lose situation. If your boyfriend says yes, you’ll want to kill him. Men will (most often) say no thinking that that is what you want to hear, but then you’ll wonder why he doesn’t think she’s hot (you must have thought she was to ask the question in the first place) and then you’ll question your man’s bad taste in women, leading you to wonder: “Well, if he’s got bad taste, what am I then?” Never a good idea.

6. “You’ve put a bit of weight on since we’ve been together.”

No matter what anyone says, men do care about these things too ladies. Imagine how you’d feel if your boyfriend said this to you. Not impressed, I imagine. If it is true that your man has put on a few pounds since you’ve been together, try suggesting joining the gym or taking up a more active hobby together. This way, you get to spend more time with your man and improve your fitness – A double winner!

7. “Your friends are a bit annoying though, aren’t they?”

The last thing you want to do is to put down his friends. Imagine how you’d feel if he started slagging off your friends. A little bit like slapping him I imagine. It’s a bit like the boyfriend’s evil mother situation. Even if your boyfriend’s friends are a bit geeky/boring/rude/incredibly stupid, just deal with it. Again, try to get on with them, but if that’s just not do-able, at the end of the day, who cares? You’ve got your friends and he’s got his. Your relationship with your boyfriend is totally separate from that that he has with his friends.

8. “I’ll try anything once!”

Unless this is very true girls, don’t say it. You’ll only get his hopes up then let him down. And that’s just cruel isn’t it? It’s like him saying: “Yeah, I love shopping. Let’s go every Saturday!” when we all know that in actual fact, he’s lying and will only take all the fun out of the weekly Saturday daytime shopping trip. Enjoy your sex life and have as much fun, as you both want, whilst respecting each other’s boundaries. If you are actually a little bit kinky though, go for it!

9. “Your mate/dad/brother/hamster is really fit……”

Even if they are, don’t bother. He’ll only get paranoid. Just admire from afar ladies. A bit of eye candy on nights out/at family parties is never going to be a problem really is it? No one needs to know!

And for the biggy……..

10. “Aww… My ex……”

Whether you’re referring to your ex in a good or bad way, this is never the smartest of ideas. Your man will just wonder why you felt the need to bring your ex up and why you’re still thinking about him. If you must, think it in your head. Focus on your current relationship. Not the ghosts of the past. That way, eventually, you won’t even want to bring up your ex. It’ll be all about you and your current other half, and no one else – The way it should be.

Like I said, it’s not lying ladies. It’s just being careful and respecting your man and his feelings. Treat others as you wish to be treated, as they say.

Follow these ten rules, and you’ll soon be well on your way to the blissful, make-other-people-jealous relationship that we all deserve!

Do want to know how to tell if a woman is attracted to you? I bet you do! One joke I used to tell with my friends is how I wished women had a ‘magical light bulb’ which shines every time they were attracted to me. It would take all the guesswork out of trying to figure out which women to approach. Unfortunately there’s no such thing as a magical light bulb! In order to understand if a woman has attraction, you have to study her body language. If you can detect certain signs of flirting when observing her, then you’ll know she’s attracted to you. So what are these signs of flirting? Well in the next few paragraphs, I’ll reveal 8 flirting cues which women send you.

If you see ANY of these, you’ll know she’s attracted to you: Flirting

Cue #1- She’s laughing with her friends and looking back at you Women understand the fact that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. If you see a woman laughing with her friends and then quickly glancing in your direction, you know she’s trying to demonstrate a sense of humor. By showing off this type of behavior she hopes you’ll pick up on her ‘fun lifestyle’ and will be interested in her. Flirting

Cue #2- She keeps on looking right at you One way women get men to approach them is to directly look at you and maintain prolonged eye contact. Some will even give a nice smile. This is probably one of the most obvious flirting signs you’ll receive from a woman! Flirting

Cue #3- She’s checking you out Yes it’s true… Women often check out guys! To detect if a girl is checking you out, watch if she does the ‘vertical scan’. This is where she’ll look at your face and then moving her eyes from her feet to your heard. This flirting signal means she’s found something attractive about you and would like see more. Flirting

Cue #4- She’ll try to look best for you When a woman knows you’ve observed her, she’ll make a quick effort to look her best for you. To do this, she’ll preen her hair and clothes. What’s great is these actions are subconscious, so she has little control over doing this. When you see this flirting cue, you know she’s trying to look her best for you. When you see any of these 4 flirting cues, approach and start talking to her! Flirting

Cue #5- She will open herself up to you Now once you’ve approach her, you should try to detect a few different flirting cues to detect if she wants you to kiss her or take things to the next level. The first sign to look for is if she’s trying to open herself up! When a woman displays an ‘openness’ with her body language, she’s demonstrating a classic sign of attraction. Open body language means her arms will be spread and her wrists will be turned towards you. Flirting

Cue #6- She’ll stroke herself When a woman is talking to you she’ll show a sign of flirting by stroking her neck or touching her hair. Also she might even her thigh! I personally LOVE seeing these signs of flirting! That’s because when a woman touches these sensitive areas, she’s probably thinking about what YOU could do to them. Flirting

Cue #7- She’ll draw closer to you Another great sign of flirting is when a woman will draw closer to you during your conversation. She’ll do this to show a desire to create more intimacy during your conversation. Another trick is she’ll lower her voice to have you draw closer to you! When you see this, you’re receiving an incredible sign of attraction! Flirting

Cue #8- She’ll scan your face including your eyes and lips This final flirting cue demonstrates a desire that she wants to be kissed! When a woman moves her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, she’s showing a classic sign of flirting where she’s thinking about you kissing her. When you see this flirting sign, act right away… Start kissing her! Once you do this, you’ll be on the road towards making things more intimate! Women give subtle signals to men which indicate attraction. When you take the time to look for flirting cues, you’ll discover she’s sending signals which mean she wants to get to know you better and make things more intimate! So pay attention and you’ll be happy with the results!

Do you believe in the power of words? Read on to learn a simple trick that really works to increase your self-confidence and esteem. Try this simple exercise and increase your attraction to women. It is important to do the exercise each day for at least a week. Have you notices that women are turned off men that lack confidence.
They generally hate men that are nervous, stammer or are unsure of themselves. I feel most women want to be lead by a masculine, sensitive man, which allows them to surrender and let go. Good confidence is real turn on to a woman. The hotter the women the more insecure most men will become. The bad news is that if you go on and meet your date with your Hot women in a nervous state, she’ll smell it a mile away.

That is assuming you got her to say yes to a date in the first place. Hot women usually test men in some way to see if they are up to the challenge and do not fold like a wimp. After all, a hot woman gets asked out many times a day. Usually a man will say, ‘gee you are beautiful, can I ask you out?’ Imaging been approached like that many times a day and you can see why the hot women will just turn away with such a lame approach. Men that say the simple word NO will be rare around very sexy women. So what are the 7 words that help to make you more irresistible to women? These words are very useful when you have a hot date lined up and want to feel more confident and at ease. So before you meet your date or even before you ask her out say these words… I love myself and I am irresistible. Now this might just seem like positive thinking but if you say this many times each day, you will start to feel this way. Think of how many times a day you put yourself down in some way by some sort of negative thinking, especially around hot women. When repeating this affirmation, feel how an irresistible man would stand. How would he talk and what would his body language be. How would he engage the women by his eye gaze? Really start to feel in your body what an irresistible man is like. When you repeat this exercise each day your body will learn what an irresistible man feels in his body. When you are feeling like this in your body, women will be attracted to you and not even know why. If you really love yourself, women will feel this and feel you will be able to love them too. Another way to create this feeling of self-love is to imagine back in your past when you were totally successful with a women. We all have something from our past when we felt on top of the world and this radiated out. When we want to feel powerful, just turn your mind back to this situation and imagine in again. Again try to feel what it felt like in your body. Breathe it in to your belly. I hope these simple tips will help you increase your self-confidence and esteem and lead to more dating success.